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5 musings that will either ruin you or make you feel seen.
This isn’t a dating newsletter.
This is about power, trust, emotional honesty, and the wreckage we leave behind when we don’t tell the truth—to ourselves or anyone else.
If you’re tired of surface-level advice, sexless relationships, performative masculinity, or feeling misunderstood in your own home, cuffed is for you.
I write to men—but not just FOR men. Women read this too. Some come to understand the men they love. Others come to finally feel seen.
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loud cars. fragile egos. and the masculinity crisis no one admits. | musing no. 2
The weather’s finally nice, which means two things:
when your best friend becomes the one who breaks you | musing no. 7
This one’s still fresh, and to be honest, I’m not sure I’ve fully processed it yet. What I do know is that I feel deeply hurt—angry, sad, betrayed. A relationship that meant the world to me is likely over, and I need to talk about it.
why i love unprotected sex (and what it really says about trust) | musing no. 13
Let’s just start with the obvious: unprotected sex is incredible. Condoms suck.
the pussy-eating problem: why most men think they’re good (but aren’t) | musing no. 15
This one’s a follow-up—and a direct tie-in—to Musing #13, which, not surprisingly, has been our most popular musing to date. That one was about emotional intimacy, unprotected sex, and trust. This one? It’s about pussy. Specifically: why so many men don’t eat it.
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What to Expect:
I publish twice a week—every Tuesday and Thursday.
Some issues are philosophical. Some are sexual. Some are confessional.
But every one is honest.
This is a space for men who are done pretending, and for women who are done being confused. It’s for the emotionally intelligent, the sexually curious, the loyal, the betrayed, the ones who’ve felt like they’re too much—or not enough.
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