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why you don’t actually dislike sydney sweeney | musing no. 57

most people don’t hate her. they hate the mirror she holds up.

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Dec 08, 2025
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a beautiful woman sits poolside in the sun, relaxed and smiling in a black bikini. bright, warm mood. minimalist cuffed branding in the corner. the image evokes ease, confidence, beauty, and the jealousy people project onto women who appear happy and unbothered.

before we start, you should hear the funny story of how this musing was born.

i tell the whole thing on this week’s cuffed podcast — the moment, the spark, the “oh we’re absolutely writing about that.”

it sets the tone for everything below. listen to it.

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people pretend they dislike sydney sweeney.

they’ll say she’s “too much,” “too sexual,” “attention-seeking,” “not that talented,” or that she’s only famous because of her looks.

ask them to explain it… they can’t.

that’s the tell.

because this was never about sydney.

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