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the reality warp | musing no. 79

gaslighting doesn’t start with screaming. it starts with logic. in musing 079, we break down intellectual bullying — the high-iq tactic designed to make…

29 mins ago • author

darvo directive | inner circle no. 4

you bring up something that hurt you. minutes later, you’re defending your tone instead of the issue. that’s not miscommunication. that’s darvo. musing…

Feb 23 • author

gaslighting directive | red room no. 19

gaslighting isn’t disagreement. it’s the slow rewriting of your reality. red room no. 19 breaks down intellectual bullying, darvo, weaponized logic, and…

Feb 22 • author

the pulse check: musing no. 78

he didn’t miss you. he missed knowing he could still have you. the pulse check isn’t romance. it’s leverage. musing 078 breaks down hoovering — and why…

Feb 20 • author

manipulation isn't random: episode 13

the post that crossed 100,000 views wasn’t complicated. it was honest. in episode 13, we break down why brutal clarity is outperforming comfort — and…

Feb 19 • author

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punitive silence: proximity without access | musing no. 77

he didn’t leave the bed. he left the connection. punitive silence isn’t about space. it’s about control. this week, we break down how proximity can…

Feb 18 • author

pulse check directive | inner circle no. 3

the pulse check protocol

Feb 17 • author

punitive silence directive | red room no. 18

weaponized withdrawal + the illusion of control

Feb 15 • author

the audition | musing no. 76

you thought it was chemistry. it was positioning. when he pulls up a third chair, you stop being chosen and start competing. musing 76 dismantles…

Feb 13 • author

the architecture of control | episode no. 12

this episode starts an eight-week series on manipulation + control. not the obvious kind. the quiet kind. episode 12 lays the foundation.

Feb 11 • author

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the poke | musing no. 75

he stayed calm. she started to break. everyone saw her reaction. no one saw what caused it. this is the poke.

Feb 11 • author

the audition directive | inner circle no. 2

you don’t lose people because you’re not enough. you lose yourself when you start auditioning to be chosen. before musing 76 drops, this inner circle…

Feb 10 • author

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