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conflict avoidance | musing no. 58
conflict isn’t the problem. it’s the emotional fallout people dump on you when you try to resolve it. m.58 breaks down why men fear reactions more than…
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why you don’t actually dislike sydney sweeney | musing no. 57
you don’t actually dislike sydney sweeney. you dislike the way she makes you feel about the parts of yourself you were told to shrink.
Dec 8
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episode no. 4 | 07.12.2025
why family dynamics, old friendships, and hidden insecurities always surface this time of year
Dec 7
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when they say “you’ve changed” | musing no. 56
they don’t hate that you changed. they hate that your growth exposed their intentions. musing 56 goes live for paid subscribers tomorrow.
Dec 3
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a family of convenience | musing no. 55
what if the problem was never you — but the family that only loved you when it was convenient?
Dec 1
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November 2025
episode no. 3 | 28.11.2025
ever wonder how cuffed musings are born? episode 3 takes you inside the notebook — where ideas start as observations, evolve into drafts, and end up as…
Nov 28
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the moment she stops explaining | musing no. 54
the moment she breaks is never loud. it’s the night she realizes she’s carrying the relationship alone.
Nov 26
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why women are tired of carrying men | musing no. 53
women aren’t exhausted because men are emotional. they’re exhausted because too many men hand their unfinished emotional work to the woman they date …
Nov 24
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episode no. 2 | 23.11.2025
episode 2 dives into the real numbers: the top five posts across all platforms, the substack vault’s algorithm-picked favorites, musings 51–54, + a raw…
Nov 24
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episode no. 1 | the intro
the beginning of everything cuffed. why it exists, how it’s built, and where it’s going.
Nov 23
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don’t mistake access for forgiveness | musing no. 52
when a man betrays you and still thinks he’s doing you a favor by “defending” you, you don’t argue—you close the door and protect your peace.
Nov 19
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dating while building cuffed | musing no. 51
dating while building cuffed creates a unique problem: she can read every layer of you long before you learn anything real about her. m.51 breaks down…
Nov 17
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