presence is foreplay — the truth about why women open up to him | musing no. 46

she didn’t open up because of charm or luck. she opened up because she finally felt safe.

for a long time, i thought i was just lucky.

lucky that the women i’d been with were sensual, open, and uninhibited.

but it wasn’t luck.

it was safety.

i’ve always been a details guy. i notice ev…