I’m going to start asking for a book of author poetry. Your posts are often nearly that already. Or almost koans … little meditative riddles that enlighten once they are digested.
It seems at times in our lives when we need to grow as an individual we tend to retreat and believe a false security of ghosting someone instead of owning what needs to be said or done to build and repair the relationship.
PS - empty room in m71, he’s baaaackkk in m72. Clever.
you caught that did you? 😉🤔
I’m going to start asking for a book of author poetry. Your posts are often nearly that already. Or almost koans … little meditative riddles that enlighten once they are digested.
stay close…
It seems at times in our lives when we need to grow as an individual we tend to retreat and believe a false security of ghosting someone instead of owning what needs to be said or done to build and repair the relationship.
yes — that “false security” is exactly it.
ghosting often feels like growth because it avoids immediate discomfort.
but real growth asks us to stay present long enough to name what’s hard — especially when repair is possible.
retreat feels safer.
ownership is what actually changes things.
thank you for articulating this so clearly.
— author