what an "arrangement" taught me about trust, sex, and real intimacy | musing no. 22

it wasn’t about sex. or money. it was about trust she never had before.

They say men who pay for things are insecure.

That it’s a power play. A transaction. A flex.

That it’s cold. Unromantic. Shameful.

They’re wrong.

I didn’t start dating again looking for an “arrangeme…