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m. 71 wireframe : red room no. 15

why disappearing feels safer than telling the truth

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Jan 27, 2026
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quick note on the podcast.

we pushed this week’s episode back a few days — on purpose.

you told us you wanted more depth.

more cohesion.

less noise.

so we listened.

going forward, every episode will answer one central question raised by that week’s musings.

read these before this week’s new musings drop:

  • musing 70: clarity is terrifying. avoidance is worse.

  • musing 69: clarity is the thing both sides are avoiding.

  • musing 68: the pause before he disappears.

  • musing 58: conflict avoidance

this week’s question:

what’s the real difference between ghosting, avoidance, and boundaries — and why does it matter?

the podcast will give you the conversation.

the musings will give you the structure.

premium will go even deeper — including behind-the-scenes looks at how these ideas are built, challenged, and refined before they ever go live.

this isn’t a delay.

it’s an upgrade.

below is the raw wireframe for musing no. 71.

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