humiliation, power, and what the act reveals | red room no. 2

what a man chases in the bedroom always reveals more about him than her.

the surface is easy to see: men chase humiliation because they mistake control for connection.

but the deeper truth is sharper—each act exposes what kind of man he really is.

this isn’t about kink-shaming. this is about frame. because in the red room, the question is never “what do you do?”

it’s “why do you need it?”