don’t mistake access for forgiveness | musing no. 52

when a man betrays you and still thinks he’s doing you a favor by “defending” you, you don’t argue—you close the door and protect your peace.

i thought the hardest part of losing a friend would be the loss itself.

it wasn’t.

the hardest part was realizing he expected to walk back in like nothing happened.

he reached out today.

acted like…